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Recreation Round Up: Games, Video games, books, movies

With my busy schedule I’m finding it more and more difficult to post about things other than pencils.  I always post about them to update my archive whenever I update my YouTube Channel: Clutch Situation.

But, I also know that many people may come here for thing other than pencils!  So, here’s a roundup of things I’ve also been doing recently with short reflections on each.

Books

I finished Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde and would definitely put it at the top of my favorite fantasy books.  That thing is DARK.  Real dark.  I find it particularly gutsy for the time it was published.

Very quickly I read the second book in the Elric saga: Sailor on the Seas of Fate by Michael Moorcock.  I especially enjoyed the ending of this one with the discovery of an ancient ancestral culture, threats in a dense jungle on the way there and mystical negotiations with an entity.  Super cool.

I very recently finished Neuromancer by William Gibson and found it to be truly fantastic.  It easily goes into my top five science fiction of all time.  Gritty, realistic, and fantastic characters.  Molly is my new heroine crush.  It is amazing how prophetic, yet also how grounded the work is.

I just started The Great Hunt (Wheel of Time 2) by Robert Jordan.  I am enjoying it much more than Eye of the World.  I think the reason for that is it takes a lot of brain energy to “figure out” the world on the first read of a Wheel of Time book.  Now that I know who the characters are I can concentrate much more easily on the subtle nuances.  I’m already reading it much faster than the first one.

Movies

I’m going to run the gamut of movies here, from frivolous to serious.

Of chief importance is that I recently discovered Ex Machina.  Fabulous film.  True to the genre and focused on one of the core tropes of science fiction:  the nature of identity.  The ending of the film makes it and defines what the film is really all about.  I won’t spoil it here because some readers may not have actually seen it yet, even though we’re two years out.  It wasn’t very mainstream.  But I highly recommend that you go buy a copy if you like science fiction, even if you haven’t seen it yet.

What do I have to say about Captain America: Civil War?  It isn’t the BEST comic book movie by a long stretch.  I do think it is the MOST comic book movie that has been produced.  In terms of art style, action, pacing, etc.  It just feels like a comic book. And I mean that in a good way.  I really enjoyed it. The reveals and ending conversation between Stark and Rogers will be something that fans will talk about for a long time.

I really enjoyed X-Men: Apocalypse.  It is a movie clearly made for fans as there are a ton of allusions to past work.  My wife hated it and I can understand why.  If you don’t know the X-men, this movie contains a lot of inside references that you wouldn’t understand.  It may be the most narratively weak of the three recent X-men films, but I still enjoyed.   I will buy it and hide my copy.  j/k

I enjoyed Deadpool.  DC will probably never figure out how to “copy” it’s success and I think that, in of itself, is the problem.  Whoever they have making movies for them is uncreative and unoriginal.  I enjoyed Batman v. Superman: Dawn of Justice.  At least, as much as I could giving how incredibly depressing and humourless it is.  It is at least four movies crammed into one movie and is the poster child for everything that DC just doesn’t understand about movies.  For my full thoughts, see one of the best Honest Trailers ever made, because it addresses a lot of people find super bizarre and frustrating about it:

I saw Alice Through the Looking Glass at a cheap theatre near where I live.  I don’t own the first one, but I do watch it on TV whenever it was on.  I enjoyed it.  I really liked Sasha Baron Cohen’s Time character.  I think he’s a good “villain” to play counterpoint to the Red Queen.  The movie does a great job of helping us sympathize with both characters.  Anytime you can sympathize with a villain, they are much, much stronger.

On a serious note, my wife and I saw Me Before You. This is a drama (based on a novel) about a woman who becomes the caretaker of a guy with quadriplegia.  The central core of the movie is his decision to undergo physician-assisted suicide, which is a serious issue for many, obviously.  My wife and I have a lot of life experience and are sympathetic to physician-assisted suicide.  I think the movie tackles the difficult issue respectfully (except for one off-putting “joke” at the beginning).  I think that people who oppose physician-assisted suicide are struggling to empathize with the pain of others and should give this one a watch.  If anything, try to see the issue from the other perspective.  Physician-assisted suicide does not glorify death by suicide or promote it, nor does it devalue people with disabilities.  I am a survivor of suicide and I work extensively with people with disabilities and I believe that heavily-consenting choices are an individual’s right.

On to more frivolous movies:  I saw Ghostbusters (2016) two nights ago and really enjoyed it.  I think that the violent detractors of this film fall into two camps:  1) The sexist and 2) The anti-reboot crusaders.  I watched a YouTube video of a comic book nerd who went in convinced she wasn’t going to enjoy the reboot.  Spoiler alert: she didn’t enjoy the reboot!  Look, I get it.  Reboots are nostalgia-based cash grabs.  Hollywood has been doing this for decades.  It isn’t new.  What I found most funny about the video is that she compared recent reboots to their older versions.  The three she picked were RoboCop, Total Recall, and Ghostbusters (1984).  Obviously the RoboCop and Total Recall reboots were terrible.  But, can we just talk about the fact that RoboCop and Total Recall, the originals, aren’t exactly high art in of themselves.  They’re loved, don’t get me wrong.  I own all three of the originals of the listed films.  But RoboCop especially is terrible as a film.  Bad effects, bad acting, one-dimensional narrative.  Yes, there is a “message” about technology and urbanization, but it isn’t well-crafted.  Total Recall, based off of Philip K. Dick’s You Can Remember It Wholesale is a action-oriented reimagining of the original story that Arnold-ized what was a serious story.

So, I get it, you have nostalgia for those films.   But they aren’t, in of themselves, good films.  I just find it a little disingenuous to take popcorn movies you love from the past and treat them as if they are high art compared to popcorn movies of the current times.

So what did I think of Ghostbusters (2016)?  It was funny and I laughed out loud several times.  It wasn’t as funny as the original, but it’s pretty close.  Unlike some, I’m capable of enjoying myself at something when taken as it is, not what I want it to be.  I think I’ve established that on this blog.

There are a few movies to look forward to coming up! Suicide Squad (well, meh), Jason Bourne (they never should have ditched Damon), Miss Peregrine’s Home For Peculiar Children (I like Burton films), Underworld: Blood Wars (? Yikes), Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them (squeal!).  I’m REALLY anticipating Doctor Strange!  He’s one of my favey secondary characters.

Great trailer.

Video Games

I haven’t played as many video games as of late.  I went full bore into Fire Emblem: Fates when it released and intend to go back to it.  I picked up Samurai Warriors Chronicles 3 when school got out and played that for quite some time.  I intend to go back to it.

Yes, I’ve played Pokemon Go!  I think it is great for a whole host of reasons.  Chief among them is the exercise, followed by the opportunity to find and learn about artwork in your community.  I’ve been really bothered by the Candy Crush-loving haters who seem to have decided that exercise and learning about art are (somehow?) bad things.

Tabletop Games

I’ve gotten back into Magic: The Gathering.  I have a few friends that play and they kept asking me to join.  After doing some investigating I really like the direction that Wizards has taken in keeping the game going over the years.  Many interesting formats and products.  I traded in a lot more Star Wars Miniatures on CoolStuffInc.com and got over 400 bucks in store credit!  With it, I purchased several Commander decks, sleeves, singles I liked, and a variety of board games and RPGs that I’ll talk about shortly.

I really like the flavor of the latest block:  eldritch Lovecraftian Horror.  I played the Eldritch Moon pre-release this last Sunday, built a really strong Blue/Black deck with some powerful bombs and managed to go 2-1. At that point, the top four (myself included!) just decided to call it and each split the remaining prize support.  I won 9 boosters!  Legend Comics and Coffee in Omaha not only has really generous prize support but is also positively supporting the game by giving out prizes for each match win, not just overall standing.  This keeps both competitive and casual players in the game because you can go 1-3 and win something.  Smart, and I plan to use this method of prize distribution moving forward in Game Club.

I also picked up XCom: The Board Game, Marvel Legendary, and Twilight Imperium: 3rd Edition with my store credit.  XCom is an awesome game that you can actually play (sadly) solo.  It is tough.  I’ve played it three times and won once.  It is controlled by an app and timed and it is hard enough with no time limit.  I’m not sure when I’m going to get to play the other two, but I hope so soon.

We recently played Dixit with some friends and really enjoyed it.  I recommend it.

I’ve played Star Wars: Rebellion several times since picking it up and really love it.  The length makes it really difficult to get people to play, but I’ve also never not had an enjoyable game of it.  Maybe I can recruit some people soon.

I also picked up the Core book for FFG Star Wars: Age of Rebellion RPG and some dice.  I have no idea when I would be able to play it but sometimes it’s nice just to be able to read an RPG Core Book.

Whew, well, I’m spent.  Clearly I don’t blog as often as I should and maybe I should have split this up into several posts, but this is what I was motivated to do.  If you’d like to hear more, feel free to ask a question in the comments.

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Thoughtful commentary on gender roles in Avengers (spoilers)

So, in case you hadn’t heard, there are no Black Widow toys for Avengers AoU.  Her motorcycle scene, as depicted by one toy, has Iron Man riding the bike, which is ridiculous.  Another version has Captain America riding the bike.

What about her character arc?  Here is some very thoughtful commentary on it, with further links to other commentary contained within.

http://www.npr.org/sections/monkeysee/2015/05/12/404168828/black-widow-scarce-resources-and-high-stakes-stories?utm_campaign=storyshare&utm_source=plus.google.com&utm_medium=social

The point that resonated with me is, what is the character arc that Romanoff could have that wouldn’t be sexist?  The danger of making a “strong” female character that has parity is that you could very well just end up writing the female doing what the men typically do in a superhero movie.  Is that really parity? Is parity really so simple as “oppressed group should do exactly what the privileged group does”?  What if the privileged group is engaging in unethical behavior?

Is the goal of parity for women to do exactly what the men do?  Or is that inherently patriarchal, since we would be essentially writing the male choices and qualities as the “ideal” for women?  Should women’s roles be equitable first? I don’t have an answer to that one, nor should I, since I’m a dude.  But its definitely worth thinking about.  I want women to have access to the same levels of accomplishment of men, of course.  But do we really want a world in which women become men?  I don’t think that women should have to lose their gender identity or switch it in order for us to have parity.

Game Club Parity

Game Club went pretty well last night.  We played X-wing Miniatures, Wii U Smash Bros, no dice Dungeons and Dragons and many more.  I could break down  what happened with any of those, but instead I’d like to focus on perhaps our best success.

We had an almost equal distribution between young women and young men at yesterday’s club.  This is a huge success.  Women feel welcome at Game Club.  I have been trying to make that a reality for some time and I feel like we’ve accomplished it.  The women were present and playing games.

The highlight of the evening (and this will sound terrible) is that Candace had another practice that she had to attend and arrived late.  When she arrived, she was very disappointed that she didn’t arrive early enough to get in on X-wing Miniatures (we were already swelled at a three on three and well into the game).  My evening wasn’t made because she was disappointed, of course.  It was made because she clearly very much enjoys a hobby that is regrettably dominated by men.  We need to change that domination and I’m committed to changing it.  And so I’m clear, I’m not “surprised” that she likes it or makes smart moves with very little experience.  Its an awesome game.  I’m happy that we’ve crafted an environment where all are excited to engage in a game to their fullest.

I mean, if you’re a gamer and want to make a first step to combating this problem in our hobby, you can start by not being (or acting) surprised.  Don’t be surprised that a woman likes Star Wars.  Don’t be surprised that a woman wants to be intellectually challenged.  Don’t be surprised when you exclude a woman or treat her “softly” when you teach a game and she never comes back to the table.  There is a good start.  And there will be more that you need to do to help make a better hobby.  But you’ll have to start somewhere, and that means checking yourself before you wreck yourself.

Real Talk About Sexism in Gaming

http://www.upworthy.com/25-ways-guys-are-given-special-treatment-as-told-by-a-bunch-of-dudes-who-dont-want-it-anymore?c=ufb1

Highlights above, or just watch the linked video.  Does it “offend” you?  Ask yourself:  Why am I offended?  And then try to put yourselves in the shoes of someone who puts up with it all the time.

For a group of gamers who fancy themselves as intellectuals, we sure do struggle with empathy.

 

 

Sexism in Gaming

I know I said I wasn’t going to get political on here, but the politics of popular culture and gender equality are central to gaming.  I’m not trying to create an apolitical zone or anything and anyone who knows me knows that I take advocacy for important topics seriously.

I know a ton of women with solid geek cred.  They have laminated cards.  Just kidding.  But they should.  Actually, they shouldn’t need any card to prove they are a gamer.  We have pretty large proportions of females in our Game Club at school, and they all know their nerdy hobbies inside and out.  We need them there.  We’re all better when we are exposed to multiple perspectives in life.

There is still rampant sexism in gaming communities, I’m sad to say.

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